This could be a lengthy and convoluted case to explain. The psycological aspects of your situation may lie deeply rooted in your past, possibly. Then again... well, rather than dwell on preliminary conjecture let's roll up our collective sleeves and get into an in-depth analysis of this delicate and profoundly intimate matter. Let's start off with just with a candid view of the object of the discussion here:Woops! that was easy!Any questions?