Lewis, the hell with the motor, where did you get that washdown fitting, Lawrenceville Ma & Pa Hardware and feed store?
Run with it Lewis! Re-use the same square washers in the same holes so they conform with the indented areas... Seriously, given that your transom is basically solid, I'd grind off the gel around the holes, fill the depressions in with Dura-glass, sand down to flush, brush on some white gel, then hang the motor. The Dura-glass will give you the strength to keep from compressing when you tighten down the nuts...
You could go with these?