Well went down to the boat and checked relays .I swapped them with the other engine and they work fine.I figured this was one of those misteries that was going to cost me a fortune, then I had a stupid idea its just stuck from laying all winter so I put a 4X4 under the engine with a concrete block and stood on it hit the button bounced on it a couple of times and she let go and came up. First time I got off that easy.